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FAMIC in Austin and Something More…

Posted on: 10-30-2009 Posted in: Just for Fun!, Membership News

Many of you were, most likely, at the NFDA event in Boston this week; so I’m pretty confident you’re feeling the same somewhat disoriented way that I am as you return to work today.

Even though I wasn’t in Boston, I’m feeling that this week just flew by. The weather has turned colder, so I’ve spent a lot of time bringing in firewood – and planning for my trip to Austin next week to meet with the members of FAMIC. I’m really excited to have this opportunity to represent the members of AWFD!

Just a brief reminder: the association newsletter will not go out until the middle of November – so that I can report back on this trip.

In the meantime, I wanted to share this with you. It’s an email I received recently, with the one word subject line: Perception.

Violinist

Washington, DC Metro Station on a cold January morning in 2007. The man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time approx. 2 thousand people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After 3 minutes a middle aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried to meet his schedule.

4 minutes later: The violinist received his first dollar: a woman threw the money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.

6 minutes: A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.

10 minutes: A 3-year old boy stopped but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced their children to move on quickly.

45 minutes: The musician played continuously.  Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace.  The man collected a total of $32.

1 hour: He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.

This is a true story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people’s priorities. The questions raised: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?

One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:  If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made…. How many other things are we missing?

So, let me beseech you…stop, and see the beauty all around you. Wherever you are, there it is!

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